All Relationships are based on Terms and Conditions !

All Relationships are based on Terms and Conditions !

A contract is structured on terms and conditions !

There are rules that  are set to be followed .

The game is to understand the rules and the contract on which these relationships are based on .

There is no free lunch , free style or unconditional  relationships !

This is accepted or not accepted .

That is not done !

You cannot get away with this !

When I say this , I mean this and not that !

How can you assume anything in a relationship ?

Don't take anything for guaranteed ?

What were you expecting ? you cannot expect anything !

Words like advantage , control , manipulation are used so often in relationships .

Games people play !

Demand is another word that can be seen being used . Too demanding !

Accountability ! you are accountable in a relationship .

So , you can see relationships are complex and complicated !

You just cannot walk into a relationship and have it going smooth !
We have beliefs that further add to the already complex situation !
What needs to happen for you to feel this way or that way ?!
How is you pleasure and pain seen in a relationship ?
Can you see how our so called simple relationships get so confusing !
Every relationship will have its set or pattern of issues and problems !
If you don't play the game according to the rules or terms and conditions , you are going to face real problems in life !
I am sure you all are familiar with what I am sharing with you ?

Our human relationships form one of the most important content of our life !
Even that is so confusing and it takes a heavy toll on our life .
Most of us are wounded in one form or another when it comes to relationships !
Just sit back and ponder .
What a challenge we face !!
I just wanted to high light the relationship issue .
Take care.
Amar.