Some Relationships are just Toxic !
There is no point just going about our life and pretending that all is wonderful with our relationships !
No !! All is not well at all with our relationships !
Some are so toxic that people are living in daily battle fields that are many times worst then the real wars !
Some body is getting hurt daily and badly too !
It is a living hell !
I actually know people who live such life's !
Sadly , many such relationships have developed complex behaviour patterns where people who are getting hurt have accepted that as reality and live , thinking it is normal !
A mother goes on abusing her grown up daughter who is actually caring for her !
The daughter who has practically sacrificed so much is now getting abused daily !
She actually feels it is normal and feels very guilty of even speaking against her mother !
I have personally seen how abusive and unhealthy the relationship is !!
The strong moral , cultural and traditional beliefs are all making it so difficult for the child even to point or say anything hush against the mother !
Mother is seen as a very sacred person ! It is true for most yet in the name of being mother , there are many such very toxic relationships !
My reason for writing this blog is just to make us aware that this too is happening !
People are living in a living hell all their life !
The term toxic is not even allowed to be entertained !
There are scared relationships that are morally and religiously held high !
Yes , they should be and rightly so !
But , toxic relationships too are real !!
What is needed is to point out and make people aware !
We have to be aware and know that every relationship is complex !
The same person that you or me see as a mother or father is also much more !
The mother or father is also a daughter or son to some one ! They are also people just as any one of us!
The labels are not carved in stone !
I am some ones son , brother ,father , husband , friend , uncle , grand uncle and much more !
I may be a good brother but a terrible father ! A good friend but a terrible husband !
What I am trying to express is that we are complex beings when it comes to relationships !
We have to understand that !
The same abusive mother is a most charming woman outside to others !
We sometimes tend to relate to our relationships in a very unique and personal way !
Whatever the reason , just be mindful that being abused in any form is just not acceptable .
Lets learn to respect and love our self first !
That could be the awakening of love , respect and care for others !
As I expressed , earlier , my need to write this blog is to just alert you to this kind of relationships .
Do something and live a peaceful and happy life .
That will do for now .
Take care . Love.
Amar.
We have to be aware and know that every relationship is complex !
The same person that you or me see as a mother or father is also much more !
The mother or father is also a daughter or son to some one ! They are also people just as any one of us!
The labels are not carved in stone !
I am some ones son , brother ,father , husband , friend , uncle , grand uncle and much more !
I may be a good brother but a terrible father ! A good friend but a terrible husband !
What I am trying to express is that we are complex beings when it comes to relationships !
We have to understand that !
The same abusive mother is a most charming woman outside to others !
We sometimes tend to relate to our relationships in a very unique and personal way !
Whatever the reason , just be mindful that being abused in any form is just not acceptable .
Lets learn to respect and love our self first !
As I expressed , earlier , my need to write this blog is to just alert you to this kind of relationships .
Do something and live a peaceful and happy life .
That will do for now .
Take care . Love.
Amar.
No comments:
Post a Comment